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Boys my age sometimes get freaked out about this

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by InnocenceLost, Aug 29, 2019.

  1. InnocenceLost

    InnocenceLost New Member

    Location:
    US
    Boys my age sometimes get freaked out about this, was looking for some opinions..

    I have a larger than average will a lot larger than average clitoris and long lips...

    By larger-than-average, I mean it can sometimes stick out well over an inch maybe inch and a half when I'm really turned on

    Intermarriage, they start out long and thin almost looking like 2 Rose of really long really thin lips that swell up as I get more turned on and then at their Peak they look really swollen pretty much looking and feeling like 2 gummy worms

    I'm also a major squirter especially from oral but major squirter I mean straight up sprinkler status

    I'm told none of these things are necessarily normal like I said boys menu age sort of freak out especially about the size of my clit

    Or any of these like freakishly bad? What are your opinions?

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  2. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist Donor

    Location:
    North
    I don't know how old you are so I don't know how old the boys are you have to deal with but...
    if they are freaking out over any of this -- it is their problem not yours.

    Nothing you have described is out of the ordinary at least not in the world of people who have any experience.
    Not sure I would have used your choices of terminology for descriptors but I'm a writer/poet so gummy worms wouldn't be my first choice to describe a woman's genitalia.

    You sound like a perfectly average person who needs to not hang out with boys.
    Find people who don't get freaked out by the people they are fucking.
     
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  3. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    It’s not age, it’s attitude

    Enjoy yourself
    Be with those who enjoy you

    It’s fairly straightforward

    Although, I do realize that it’s not something that can be put out there until the moment

    Nor can you know their reaction until that moment and after
    (I have this challenge too)

    But this is true for ALL aspects in sex and intimacy in relationships
    And this is for everyone.

    All you can do is be yourself
    See what works, what doesn’t
    For yourself and for them
    Try, try again

    There are men who enjoy your situation (myself included, to be honest)

    Just keep enjoying yourself
    It will click sooner or later.
     
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  4. steelguy71 New Member

    Location:
    CA
    Rogue49 has some sage advice for you, sweetie.
    Most younger boys suffer a lack-of-maturity, and it is no fault of their own.

    I am certain you will eventually encounter a more mature (for his age) boy who will 'click' with you and appreciate your extra charms that you described in your post.

    If i was currently in your age group, i would be that boy (no creep here - all due respect) who is enamoured with your extra charms. I am positive i am not the only male who enjoys either extra large clittys and/or girls who squirt. To find a woman with both of these attributes would be heaven-sent IMO.

    Don't be discouraged because boys your age are mostly little jerks, you will come into your own and the right guy will come along someday and appreciate you for who you are as a beautiful, budding woman and will also find your special atributes to be a huge bonus.

    Stay positive and stay grounded



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  5. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    Location:
    Jonesboro ga
    like said before, im not sure how old you are or the boys are that you are with (dating) but there is nothing wrong with any of that. You need to be happy with who you are and how you are made. dont let them discourage you from being you in your sexuality. everything that you described is normal, and some women wish they could do that and look like that. sounds like the boys you are with or dating are just imachure.

    stay you
     
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  6. InnocenceLost

    InnocenceLost New Member

    Location:
    US
    Guys think you all for your kind words , you have helped me out more than you know.. and to answer a recurring question in this thread, I just turned 18

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  7. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    Location:
    Jonesboro ga
    That means most if not all of the boys you are with (date or whatever) are very imachure and have a lot to learn. they will learn eventually. some will take longer than others.

    just remember that whatever negative stuff they say to you its just cause they are ignorant to the fact. and just ignore them. like i said before. stay you..
     
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  8. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Nebraska
    @InnocenceLost, you would probably really be helped by an older and more experienced female mentor that you could trust. For me, in my mid-teens, my three-year-older cousin Chrissie really helped with my questions and confusion. Really, my mom would have helped but I wasn't about to reveal any more than I had to to Mom. Chrissie was more experienced and a hyper-sexual like me. Although we didn't know that word back in the early 'nineties and just thought we were "sluts."
    There's a great variety of labia and clitoris sizes. Mine are just average;) But prominent will be considered a turn off to some men/boys and a turn-on fetish to others. Like my red pubes and freckles.:) Some guys are turned on by red hair and freckles. Others not so much. One guy said my skin looked like Spam.:rolleyes: Needless to say, he never got to see much of it after that.;)
    I'm not quite sure what to say about squirting. I don't squirt myself (although very wet would certainly apply) and I've never personally known a woman "squirter." My female gynecologist says there's no such thing as female "cum" in the same sense that there is for men/boys at orgasm. The organs to produce it and the plumbing to deliver it simply do not exist. Whatever.
    @InnocenceLost you would benefit from consulting with a female reproductive specialist physician if you don't see one already at least once a year. Your local or area Planned Parenthood should be able to help. If you don't have insurance their charges are free to very reasonable.
     
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  9. bigmanspence New Member

    Location:
    US
    You've nothing to worry about. Those are all things males as myself find arousing and beautiful. You just have not been with the right man yet.

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  10. GhoastGirl2.0

    GhoastGirl2.0 Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Western PA
    I agree with the others...having gone through my own issues around self-confidence and coming out of those now (think what is it...8-9 years since I first started posting on the original TFP??!) it's the guys who are the issue my dear, not you. Never you.
     
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  11. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize. Donor

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    You'll eventually meet the right guy or guys who will appreciate your uniqueness. Give it some time, and try not to worry.
     
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  12. dazdandconfzed New Member

    Location:
    GB
    Excuse me being explicit, but having been with girls with both 'innie' and 'outie' lips, I can honestly say I prefer the latter. There is more to explore with your tongue and mouth and fingers, there is something very sensual about it. There s nothing better than kissing/licking/sucking a nice big swollen clit, or massaging a nice pair of lips and feelings them get nice and wet, or watching them 'hug' you when you slide in..if you know What I mean..., and I don't think I am the only guy here or anywhere who things that. Ignore the silly boys, you sound beautiful and totally normal . :)

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