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Do women like to watch guys masturbate?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by ralphie250, Mar 9, 2013.

  1. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

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    Just asking if women like to watch? I love to watch my wife touch herself (when she does, which is not often). To me its a BIG turn on for me. It makes me harder than a rock. I wish she would masterbate and not know i was watching...
    Just trying to figure out if its a turn on for women also.
     
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  2. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member Donor

    It's a turn-on for me. I can't speak for other women, but I love watching my husband masturbate.
     
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  3. mixedmedia

    mixedmedia ...

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    Yes. Very, very much. :)
     
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  4. Plan9

    Plan9 Hard To Kill Donor

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    I'm not a woman but I've been with enough to know that women often enjoy watching the same things that men enjoy watching as far as it applies to the opposite sex.

    It's easy to assume that the sexes are so different that maybe women are only into holding hands, kissing in the rain and all that nutty stalker shit from John Cusack's early years.

    Women can be just as nasty as men; I know that one for a fact. The issue with many couples is that one partner is a raging volcano of lust and the other one is basically dead in the pants.

    My exwife used to enjoy watching me yank the crank and, by the time she was licking the semen off my chest, she was begging. And I've had partners that really weren't into masturbation at all.

    Instead of wishing that she would masturbate so you could covertly observe (way too much scheduling), have you considered coaxing her into doing such while you sit across from her in the bedroom?

    Mutual masturbation can be very satisfying as you control the tempo and the visuals can't be beat.
     
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  5. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

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    Tried that to no avil
    :(
     
  6. Plan9

    Plan9 Hard To Kill Donor

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    Well, how did you phrase it? What was the response? 90% of Let's-Do-New-Sex-Stuff is how you sell it, not what you're selling.

    Exhibit A
     
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  7. *Nikki*

    *Nikki* Slightly Tilted

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    I like it. Depends on the guy though.....I'm picky.
     
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  8. PonyPotato

    PonyPotato Very Tilted

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    I had a relatively recent series of Skype sessions during which I most definitely enjoyed watching my man of interest masturbate.
     
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  9. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

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    I pretty much took the dominant role and told her what i wanted. Needless to say it didn't happen
     
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  10. girldetective

    girldetective Getting Tilted

    Yes, I like to watch.
    Im more inhibited, and perhaps more affected, when being watched.
    Plan9 hit it. Mutual is key, I think. You would have the option of stroking while watching, and she the same pleasure.
    Everyone gets to play their hand.
     
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  11. Poetry

    Poetry Totally Sharky, Complete

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    I used to be decently apathetic, until I realized that if a guy is frantically jerking himself to get off... it's a turn off or simply boring. If a guy is enjoying himself, enjoying the pleasure of his own touch, then it's hot as hell.
     
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  12. mixedmedia

    mixedmedia ...

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    I dunno. I sort of like it when they're frantic, too.
     
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  13. Ditto.

    This!

    :D

    I'm narcissistic so I prefer he masturbate to the thought of me. That's hot.
     
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  14. Plan9

    Plan9 Hard To Kill Donor

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    Alright, I've got another question: What do people look at when watching their partner masturbate?

    I'm always looking at her face. The crotch isn't particularly interesting with a hand palming it.

    ...

    Jesus, I just tripped over the giant joke opening you left there, lady.

    You better cover that bad boy up before the others use it.
     
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  15. Poetry

    Poetry Totally Sharky, Complete

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    When they're frantic, there are two things that bother me.

    1. It reminds me of a dog humping a couch cushion.

    2. It goes against one of my most basic sex principles: sex shouldn't be about the orgasm unless the scene itself requires an orgasm to be complete. Sure, it's masturbation, but you're with another person.

    Also, I've got this animal-brain thing going which I'm sure I'm going to get some eye-rolls about, but one of the traits I value most in my partner, possibly the trait I value most in my partner, is self-control. When they're frantically rubbing themselves raw, there's no evident self-control. If they're bringing themselves to orgasm with self-knowledge and control over their movements and state of arousal... fuck.
     
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  16. mixedmedia

    mixedmedia ...

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    Sure, but we are just animals. A little lack of self-control, to me, implies a sort of abandonment that I find arousing. I get what you're saying, though.
     
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  17. Plan9

    Plan9 Hard To Kill Donor

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    Something about a woman masturbating frantically is pretty frickin' hot.

    Furrowed brow and kickin' the sheets around... on a mission.

    Perhaps it's because men can identify with the urge.
     
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  18. Poetry

    Poetry Totally Sharky, Complete

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    I think part of it for me, and my love of rape scenes, is that moment of total snapping when they just lose it and suddenly you're being pinned to the ground in the most unnatural position or you're getting choked out via forearm and the blackness is starting to creep in around your vision. I like being the recipient of the loss of control, but also having the knowledge they're in perfect control. It's that type of abandonment that I find arousing.
     
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  19. mixedmedia

    mixedmedia ...

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    I like both kinds. :)
     
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  20. Plan9

    Plan9 Hard To Kill Donor

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    I like the part where everybody is getting off.

    There needs to be more of that in life.
     
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