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Do you ever take erotic vacations?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by wyopen, Nov 25, 2011.

  1. bobGandalf

    bobGandalf Vertical

    Location:
    United States
    Have to say, my wife and I also manage to make any vacation erotic......well maybe not all....camping in a tent with the children was great, but not erotic. ;)
     
  2. Tophat665

    Tophat665 Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    NoVA
    I'd be very interested in seeing this as well. But yeah, I know how busy this time of year can be...
     
  3. greywolf

    greywolf Slightly Tilted

    Wouldn't a honeymoon fall into that category? And sadly, it's the last (and first, and only) time I've done that.
     
  4. Redlemon

    Redlemon Getting Tilted

    Location:
    New England
    I consider a resort with a nude beach to be sensual, not erotic. Before our son was born, we would choose resorts with nude beaches, the best was Grand Lido Negril in Jamaica.

    I once prepared a scavenger hunt for my wife which led from a flower shop to a lingerie shop to me waiting at a sex motel. That was entertaining.
     
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  5. bobGandalf

    bobGandalf Vertical

    Location:
    United States
    I like the scavenger hunt idea!
     
  6. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    We've gone to Hedo a couple of times. It's one of those "erotic" vacations that you can allow yourself to let go completely, but you have to prepare yourself ahead of time for the mental aspect.

    http://www.hedonism.com/
     
  7. Tophat665

    Tophat665 Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    NoVA
    Seriously considering this for the missus & me, but can you explain a bit more about what you mean by preparing ahead of time for the mental aspect.
     
  8. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    You have the prude side and the nude side..

    on the prude side, people are generally more self-conscious and shy, so you have to remember that if they stray over to the nude side, they're probably more apt to be offended so you sometimes have to watch your act. The nude side (the times we went) was total abandon of inhibition. What this means is that if you aren't swingers, you'll need to prepare yourself on how to deflect the propositions of others. If you are swingers, you'll need to prepare yourself on having to employ your usual deflections and defensive mechanisms in a much broader scale.

    It's certainly not a major issue, it's just something that you have to remember if you happen to be there when a swingers convention etc is going on.
     
  9. Tophat665

    Tophat665 Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    NoVA
    Ah, many thanks. I misdoubt me that the Missus is interested in freestyle swinging (though that may be the very place to find her a comfy 3 or 4 way with no lingering strings...) We shall see.
     
  10. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    there's all flavors at hedo.. so if you do want to venture down that road, make sure your rules are in place between you two and that all parties that are considered are aware of these rules. Other than that.. have fun and remember, it's WAYYY better than anything Vegas claims.
     
  11. Redlemon

    Redlemon Getting Tilted

    Location:
    New England
    Glory's Sun: Is there public sex at Hedo? I have no interest in joining other partners, but I am interested in seeing live sex as well as being seen having sex. Everywhere I've seen Hedo discussed, there is way too much euphemism to figure out what actually happens there.
     
  12. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    Let's just say..

    I've seen it all at Hedo ;)
     
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  13. Redlemon

    Redlemon Getting Tilted

    Location:
    New England
    Never a straight answer... is this part of the welcome speech at Hedo or something?
     
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  14. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    nah, it's not a speech, it's just something that's ingrained into most people that are active in the non "vanilla" lifestyle. You can find people that are mild and people that are wild. Any type of fantasy you have, you can usually find it at hedo (except for the illegal shit) a lot of us don't go into details because that's just how these things work most of the time.
     
  15. Random McRandom

    Random McRandom Starry Eyed

    I'm thinking you don't have to spend extravagantly to have an erotic vacation. Go out of town, rent a hotel and take your bag of toys with you. If you're up for it, toss back a drink or two and then head to an adult bookstore where they have pay booths. Many of these have couples rooms with couches. Go in, close the door (or leave it open if you're adventurous) and do the deed. It's exciting knowing there's random strangers watching you, and you have a bit of security knowing there are security staff on hand at most of these and most of the men aren't going to approach you unless you approach them first. So if you like to watch or be watched, this is a good way to step into it.

    There are a few couples only resorts around the nation, we just haven't gone to any yet so I can't verify how awesome they may or may not be.

    http://rooftopresort.com/

    http://www.seamountaininn.com/

    http://www.calienteresorts.com/tampa/

    I'm sure there are more that don't require international travel but I'm not gonna look them all up
     
  16. wyopen

    wyopen Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Montana
    An erotic vacation can be a great Christmas gift. Just make up an "IOU" certificate.
     
  17. Frankie

    Frankie Getting Tilted

    Location:
    New England
    Yes all the time.
     
  18. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Any vacation with my partner would be at least partly erotic, even if that is not the specific purpose of the vacation. It's unusual for us to go without for more than a couple of days.

    Without my partner? Well, there's always room for Mr. Hitachi in my travel bags.;)
     
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  19. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    Location:
    Jonesboro ga
    never taken an erotic vacation, but after reading this thread it sounds like it can be an adventure.