Erection issues

Trust me I wish this was all it was... Unfortunately I am 100% serious.

 

No, it's almost like you need to be grateful you're a twenty five year old male with the opportunity to have sex 5 times a day.

Are you afraid that if your dick doesn't get hard on command every time she pokes a tit out that she will attribute it to your lack of desire for her? If she does, correct her. If she still doesn't get it, too bad for her.

If you're afraid she will leave you for a guy who gets hard and stays hard ad infinitum, just sitting around waiting for her majesty's command, your fears are baseless. Those men don't exist. If she doesn't believe you, refer her to me. We'll leave it at that.

This is not a problem. This is simply a case of not knowing who you are and what you are capable of sexually. No fucking wonder you're anxious. I'd be anxious too if I was a man expected to deliver a hard on multiple times a day, not working off my own desire meter but off the crook of someone else's finger.

You need to get this straight in your own head - You are not a machine. Once you do, go talk to her and tell her the same thing. In a gentler way, of course, making sure she knows you love her and desire her immensely but sometimes your body makes the decision that you've had enough for the day.

If she loves you she'll adapt.

And remember - despite what the nuns told me, sex is supposed to be fun.

 

Joniemack

A.Fucking.Men! That is about as black and white as it can get.

Anon: (weird using that here instead of 4chan) if your girl cries because you don't get up, or she seems to have issues when you have your non-issue, then she has an issue... as in self-esteem. You both do actually. You shouldn't be apologizing when it happens (repeat button - activated) because it's not unnatural, or as Joniemack has stated so perfectly, your body not working as it should.

I wouldn't even talk about it or mention it unless she pulls a cry session or she brings it up (Pun? sure why not). Then you can tell her that it's not an issue considering you've fucked so much. It doesn't matter if it's the first time or not that particular day. If you fucked five times the previous night, your body still may not be ready to perform, which is why you have other things that are useful during sex. If you can't wrap your head around that, then it's time to throw some money into the overflowing coffers of the sex toy industry or throw the girl away. I wouldn't hesitate to dump a chick that couldn't understand that men and women are different on a multitude of levels.

on a side note - ignore any grammar issues. I'm running on about 2 hours sleep in 3 days.

 

( secretly was wondering if trolling also )

 

Tough to beat the trusty magic wand... used it on me once. Jahezus. Insane doesn't even begin to describe it.

Wifey prefers Lelo to her other assorted items

 

I've often thought that if I was involved in a crime, caught red-handed and cornered by cops intent on tasering me, they could just as easily immobilize me with the wand.

 

Everyone has the right to remain silent, fact is many lack the ability. I know from experience and I saw it on a Ron White special.

 

Thank you again everyone for the continued advice and support...

I apologize in advance as I do not need intend on turning this thread into my daily sex journal but this is what happened this morning...

Woke up and gave her a little massage, she started playing with my junk. I instantly got hard but as you might guess I am reluctant to continue as my anxiety of it failing is now quite present in my mind however she takes her pants off and before I know it I'm inside of her... A ways in I panic again and I start to lose it but continue anyway I sort of relaxed and it went stiff again. I finished and all was good. I take a shower, got dressed and she's standing around topless and her joke is "just put it in for a second" so I do and I'm stressed again and what do you know I lose it again, however I am pretty good with my hands and she still orgasms. I am also thinking part of the reason I lose it is due to position, when I'm on top I have tendency to kneel right up against her legs and crouch over. That can't be to great for blood flow. I kinda need to stop being a little bitch about this and stop second guessing myself. Don't think its going to go soft, know that I'm more than capable of good sex.

 

That's great anon because I stopped feeling your pain at post #15.

 

Maybe I am expecting to much? I love sex just thinking about it with her I get quite aroused which changes when negative thoughts are added

 

That is a very interesting point Borla... I never looked at it that way.

 

geez, you people call it strange things these days.