How comfortable are you???

My sexuality is a perma-part of me. For years I wished to be completely heterosexual but that is just not meant to be in this heart. mind, or body. I'm good with it now, extended family is not, but they each have their own damn bodies and lives and I really don't give a flying fuck anymore what they think.

 

I think I've said this before but I'm comfortable with who I am.
Mostly attracted to woman with the understanding that men would be an option under the right conditions.
I've never run across those conditions but I'm not willing to close my mind.

 

I identify as pansexual now, bisexual fit for many years but I fall in love with people not gender. Though totally enjoy sultry slinky ultra femme humans and over-the-top Gruff masculine daddy type humans as well! Geekiness is needed and craved. Humor is vital to me, without it we just would not understand each other. That is not to say cruelty masquerading as humor as there is far too much of that in this world, and we should lift each other up instead of stomping each other down. Wow tangent there, sorry about that!

 

I'm comfortable in my desires (completely boring hetero), but not comfortable in getting them fulfilled. I do seem to have a penchant for women with issues, both emotional and physical.

Hooray internet porn

 

I wish my wife would be a bit more freaky. I know sometimes you have to be carefully on what you wish for but but i would like to see her take dominant SM roles and let her self go crazy on me at least once. She is the would not hurt a fly type and never saw her had a really bad day. If she ever has one that may be my chance. Hummm... if i put saran wrap on the toilet anyone thing that would get her mad enough?

 

There must be some some things you really love about her to have married her. Are those still present? Did you know how different your sexualities are when you wed? Do you talk with her? Do you ask her what SHE might like in your shared sexual relationship? Trying to aggravate someone into behaving the way you wish them too seems childish. May be untrue but with the sneakiness and such I'm betting she's not feeling 100% sexually satisfied either.

 

No worry, i was just kidding I would never do this kind of prank to my wife. And i also know getting her mad just so that she beat me-up would not feel natural. Yes i do talk with her about sex but she does not seem to have many fetishes. And the ones she mentioned only seems skin deep. If all goes well when i bring her the SM Mistress subject maybe she will also open-up.