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how many times a week?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by ralphie250, Oct 20, 2011.

  1. omega

    omega Very Tilted

    Anything in particular that precipitated the increase?
     
  2. Lindy

    Lindy Very Tilted Donor

    Location:
    Nebraska
    It varies. Almost every Sunday morning turns into an extended session. Usually at least a couple of other times during the week. Sometimes every day, then less for a while. We both really like sex. Last night, a "shorty" in the middle of the night.
     
  3. Japchae

    Japchae Very Tilted

    Several things, the most being working on communication and honesty.
     
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  4. International T.

    International T. Slightly Tilted

    it's getting better. Now that she's off the birth control. But that means we're going to have to do something else for that. It seems the bc was suppressing her desire.
    4 kids is enough.....however! We were really thinking of adopting in 5 years.
     
  5. Lindy

    Lindy Very Tilted Donor

    Location:
    Nebraska
    It can't but help if the multiple other facets of the relationship are going smoothly.

    Probably can't compartmentalize good frequent sex off from a relationship where everything else is fraying around the edges.

    The "bang like a screen door in a hurricane" won't sustain for long if that's the only thing that's working in the relationship.
     
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  6. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    thatll do it
     
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  7. Lindy

    Lindy Very Tilted Donor

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Three times so far in June. Thursday night, and both Saturday and Sunday in the morning.:) Sig decided to keep track for the month, but I don't want to see any notches on the headboard. I'm not quite sure what counts as "a time" since I can orgasm multiple times in a "session." Sig counts his ejaculation as one time, (typical male attitude) so, if he cums twice he wants to count that as two times.:rolleyes: I don't think that's right if they're both in the same session maybe an hour apart. But maybe if there's nap in between, like this morning. :p

    We're quite the pair of fucking nerds!:rolleyes:
     
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  8. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there! Donor

    Or you're quite the pair of nerds fucking.....
     
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  9. POPEYE

    POPEYE Very Tilted

    Location:
    Tulsa
    Once a week these days. Could be more if we lived together. Could be more if Sandy would be interested and not fall asleep at 7. No complaints, just saying
     
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  10. POPEYE

    POPEYE Very Tilted

    Location:
    Tulsa
    Sandy and I woke late, and sat on the porch drinking coffee and having a smoke. She offered to make breakfast and I declined. We came inside and turned on the news. Where she say me back in my recliner, sat on the footstool, and gave me a slow, wet, blowjob that lasted 20 minutes and two orgasms. She then turned around and sat on me backwards, rotating her hips and pushing me deeper in her as slow as she could until I couldn't hold out anymore. When I finally came I was light headed and exhausted even though she did it all for me.
     
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  11. Lindy

    Lindy Very Tilted Donor

    Location:
    Nebraska
    The final tally was 16 for the month of June. Not bad for a couple of horny middle-aged fuckers. And we were apart three nights while one of us was out of town.:D
     
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  12. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    :)
     
  13. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    maybe2 times last month
     
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  14. Derwood

    Derwood Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    Columbus, OH
    over 1000 days and counting
     
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  15. MeltedMetalGlob

    MeltedMetalGlob ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED??? Donor

    Location:
    San Huevos, USA
    Nothing for almost four years.

    Actually, my wife got tired of making the same excuse, so she installed an old Indian device known as a "No Sex Rock" in our backyard. Now, all I have to do is look at the rock and it tells me exactly why I will not be getting laid.

    [​IMG]
     
  16. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member Donor

    Where's the sad response? :(
     
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  17. Japchae

    Japchae Very Tilted

    For the first time in my life, I've lost count. It's at least 3 times a week, if not more. Whodathunkit?
     
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  18. Lindy

    Lindy Very Tilted Donor

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I've occasionally pondered how (or if it's even possible) that men manage to avoid working up a huge resentment toward their spouses, the woman always holding the keys to the gate that leads to the land of sexual release. Or the oars to the boat that crosses the river to sexual satisfaction on the other side. The turnstile to the ejaculation express. Whatever the metaphor.:rolleyes:

    Women, starting as Mom, then as daycare givers, elementary school teachers, the nuns in Catholic schools, then as wives/partners, wield this balance of power between nurturing and nay-saying.

    The nurturing part eventually dies down, or transfers to "the children" leaving the nay-saying to fall upon the sex-starved husband. A woman's attempt to wield some power in this (allegedly) male centered world.

    And, if rape is about power, not sex, is rape a desperate means to redress the perceived sexual imbalance of power? A damn dangerous question.

    I don't understand, but realize, 'cause Ive known a few, that some women just don't like or want sexual intimacy. To me, shutting down my partner would be throwing out the baby with the bathwater, cutting off your nose to spite your face, destroying the village to save it...

    I wonder if some lesbian couples also follow this destructive dynamic? If it's not a gender thing, but about power?
     
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  19. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor



    the sad part is that you are right. sometimes we (me) just need a sexual release. wether it be a bad day, week or whatever. yes we (me) can take matters into our own hands, litterally, but sometimes its more than that.

    sometimes when you get told no (speaking from exoerience) for whatever reason enough times it makes me quit asking or trying. kinda like a dog. you tell the dog No enough times it will eventually stop or quit. and it makes me wonder what is wrong with me. am i too fat, too ugly, too whatever..... for my wife to not want to have sex with me. my wife says that shes not a sexual person......ok whatever i know its all in how you were raised bla bla bla. but if my wife needed/wanted to climb on the roof once a week to make her feel better you can best bet id hold the ladder for her. but thats just me. but then when she is feeling frisky or whatever and i just go to bed i missed out. how am i suposto know when is an ok time to have sex?? back to the dog..... you tell him to stop getting on the couch and one day you let him cause you are getting a new one the next week, how is he suposto know.... no wonder he looks like a bad dog.

    you can say communication or whatever but communication only lets the wife know how you feel it wont make her want to have sex with me, or only do it out of pitty or aggervation.

    so yes this turned into me and not all males... oops my bad. and yes when youre told no enough you eventually stop and when this happens you miss the opportuinities that are there. sorry to rant
     
  20. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    forthermore............................................


    most of the time when men cheat on their significant other its not about love. its about needing the feeling of being wanted or needed. ive had the opportuinity but never did it, how did it present itself.... casual talking leads to other things and you feel like the other person is willing to giove you what you need.

    if more women would have sex with the men in their lives there would be less (not none) cheating