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how many times a week?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by ralphie250, Oct 20, 2011.

  1. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Thank you for educating me on that.:)
     
  2. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    And yet I worked for some years in a L&D hospital and I'm not opposed to it...and even encourage the play. (*never pushing, that's up to my partner's mind at the time, which can change)
    So, I think it gets down to personal preference and comfort.

    To be honest, I did some playtime at the hospital, with a hot nurse (around the world too). So there's definitely no conflict of interest there. :)
     
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  3. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    I gotta be honest, I find period sex gross. My wife hates the thought of it too. I've earned my redwings once or twice very early on, but I'm a hard pass these days.

    There is no reason for it, its just not something that does *anything* for me.
     
  4. MeltedMetalGlob

    MeltedMetalGlob Weirder Than Normal Donor

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    Who cares, really?
    [​IMG]
     
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  5. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist

    Location:
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    Actually, while funny MMG raises a good point.
    I have two friends who are GSM (a handy alternative to the rather long LGBTAQ+, it means Gender and Sexual Minorities which pretty much covers everyone).
    Anyway the wife is asexual.
    She just doesn't care about sex, it doesn't interest her in any way shape or form.
    She likes to cuddle and be close to her partner and will have sex if that is something they really want.

    Her partner understood that going into the relationship and has developed coping mechanisms.
    They love her and they don't want to be with anyone else so they deal.
    I don't know how I would handle such a relationship but I have massive respect for them.
     
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  6. MeltedMetalGlob

    MeltedMetalGlob Weirder Than Normal Donor

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    Who cares, really?
    Since we're coming up on the 6 year mark of no sex, here's the obligatory Photoshop:

    [​IMG]
     
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  7. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    Location:
    Jonesboro ga

    i hate to like this....... if that makes any since
     
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  8. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    Location:
    Jonesboro ga
    i was on a decent streak of atleast once a week. but the last month has been filled with horse shows and working late and stuff. you know life got in the way. so its been proablly 3 weeks or so :(. but it will get better
     
  9. GhoastGirl2.0

    GhoastGirl2.0 Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Western PA
    Interesting...though I'd never be tired of sex. HA....two kids later (3.5 and almost 5) Now I am tired all the time...but that's from life/kids. He wants it more than me...but again...I am freaking exhausted so much of the time by just every day right now. Add working a very demanding job whilst keeping everyone alive and in clean (semi?) clothes...lucky to average around 1-2 week when he's home...he's gone a lot for work and usually pretty in the mood on his days home. I'm also getting over the whole 'I'm gross and no longer the sexy 20 something I used to be before I had the kids stuff' in my head....I've put a lot of time into the gym too and gotten back to my college size but even then...there's only so much you can do for certain areas after babies. I'm trying to make more of an effort to initiate and buy sexy underwear etc to surprise him. Is it wrong that I prefer a backrub over an O these days?
     
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  10. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    Location:
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    My wife prefers a backrub. But sometimes it turns into sex

    Sent from my VS996 using Tapatalk
     
  11. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there! Donor

    How do you feel about giving a BJ or a "helping hand" after that back rub?
     
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  12. GhoastGirl2.0

    GhoastGirl2.0 Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Western PA
    It often does, I do my best not to pull a starfish though

    BJs happen very infrequently (not my favorite ) however the helping hand does occur, but usually the backrubs are a precursor to the deed.
     
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  13. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    If Sunday is considered the first day of the week, four.

    OK, OK, once (but the day isn't over). My wife was wanting & needing some tongue, four Os, and dick, another four Os. I can't take all the credit she did have some help with her new mini vibe.

    The vibe is sold as a g-spot vibe, and it certainly looks good, but it doesn't quite hit her g-spot just right. It performs quite well as a clit vibe.

    More experimentation will be forthcumming.
     
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  14. Leto

    Leto Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    Toronto
    ?? starfish??
    --- Double Post Merged, Oct 24, 2019, Original Post Date: Oct 24, 2019 ---
    This. This is a good way to look at a healthy relationship! Thankyou!
    --- Double Post Merged, Oct 24, 2019 ---
    I have been known to fraternize with those commies on many occasions. There's nothing like a good cultural exchange...
     
  15. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    What in the hell just happened?

    I'll try again, and skip trying to use the quote function:

    Starfish (chocolate starfish) = Anus (asshole)

    Edit: Seeing it in context, I'm not sure about "pull a starfish."
     
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  16. Leto

    Leto Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    Toronto
    ahhhh.... Bach.
     
  17. omega

    omega Very Tilted

    A starfish is when you are flopped on the bed, legs and arms spread wide, but also not really participating or active.
     
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  18. omega

    omega Very Tilted

    Like Moses and his staff, I have parted the red sea. I don't love it, but I'll do it again. Fortunately my girl's iud mostly takes care of that. It's been a while since she has even had any spotting. Probably part of being 45 as well. I wouldn't put it past her to still be fertile, considering her Iowa corn fed roots.
     
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  19. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member Donor

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    Yep! Taking one "for the team."

    A passed-out drunk male, flat on his back (with a good "stiffy") serves well as a male starfish.:D My ex-husband (now late ex-husband) who was drunk a lot, had a kind of reverse whisky-dick. His cock stayed hard forever, but wouldn't get to the point of orgasm. I could, though.;) Cowgirl rodeo time.:p
     
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  20. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I don't think I could do an anal starfish. My butt wouldn't stay still.:)
     
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