Let me first say I am not some creepy guy sitting on a park bench, wearing nothing more than a trench coat, waiting for someone to pass by, or the guy sitting in his car waiting for done unsuspecting worn to walk by... I am a good-looking (so I've been told), professional, college educated, what I consider normal WM late 30's, married once (for 8yrs), divorced now, plenty of girlfriends in the past. Always enjoyed masturbation when I was "single". I am very well endowed, so the pleasure sensations of masturbating are that much more enjoyable. But towards the tail end of my marriage, I started to take my self-pleasure enjoyment a step further. I always fantasized about being watched while masturbating, especially the initial look and reaction of a woman when she sees my fully erect penis. I've always read about the "hotel maid" fantasy, but getting off to an unsuspecting woman isn't my thing. So I posted ads on Craigslist seeking women who "like to watch". I though I would mostly get replies from guys and prostitutes, but I was surprised that some "normal" women actually responded. I would say about one out of ten ads resulted in a genuine reply. Over the past two years I've met about ten women for such encounters. All were "one timers". I'll describe a couple encounters here. I would love to hear from those here what they think about my kink, or fetish, or whatever you want to call it. #1... Answered my CL ad looking to meet a women who enjoys "watching". Said I was not looking for anything else, unless there is mutual consent. I describe to her what I wanted to do, that would be to be in a hotel room, lying on the couch naked, full erection, eyes closed, while she walked in. She would walk in, and silently grab a chair and sit and watch. She would be free to pleasure herself if she chose to. I anted to see how long I could keep my eyes closed, knowing she was just a coupes feet away watching. We first met for a drink in the lobby to make sure both of us were real and were configurable with each other. She was an attractive woman in her mid 30's. I gave her a room key and said to come up in 10 mins. I kept my eyes closed for about five minutes while she was there. Those five minutes were amazing. The later "gave me a hand", and I pleasures her orally before she took off. Amazing experience. #2... Same basic ad on CL, reply from a woman who invited me to her apartment. She was a bit on the large side, whom I would normally not be sexually attracted to, but for this I was fine. She wanted more of a show, so what we ended up doing was this... She invited me to her living room, she sat on one couch, I the other. We had a couple glasses of wine. We small-talked for 5-10 mins, before I could tell she was anxious for thugs to start. While we were talking, I started to slowly rub my thighs, then to my bulge in my jeans. Could tell she this was turning her on. Slowly remove my jeans, leaving my colored boxers on, with half an erection hiding behind them. Could tell she was becoming more excited. We kept up the small talk (local sports team, etc) while I was rubbing my cock they my boxers, waiting for my cock to become fully erect. Could tell she wanted to see more, so I slowly slid my cock out and saw that look on her face I longed to see. For the next 20 mins I gave her a nice show while she pleasures herself. I came, cleaned up, a little more small talk then I left. #3... Same sort of ad on CL, reply from a woman who said she was married and worked in the same area where I normally would get a hotel. So this would be on her way home from work on a Friday. She said she did not want to see a picture of me, she wanted to be "completely surprised" when she walked in. Wanted to see me completely naked with a full erection when she walked in. I knew this could be a dangerous one, she could actually be a guy, or someone to rob me or someone else bad. But I wasn't ahead with it anyway. Got the text on my phone that she was in the lobby, I replied with the room#. Laid back on the couch and got my cock nice and hard. Saw the door slowly open, I was relieved to see a a nice looking woman in her early 40's. Could tell she liked what she saw. She walked over to the couch and sat on the chair I set up. She said she wanted to watch me for a while, as I pleasures myself. About 15 minutes later I asked her if she wanted to "give me a hand". She said "you betcha". We went over to the bed where she nicely brought me to an orgasm. I asked her if she would like me to return the favor, after a quick yes, I went down on her until she had a nice orgasm. After that she dressed back up and left. I could go on more, but I'm sure you get the picture. I never explored any of this with my ex during our time. The first and third encounter I described were while I was still married. The 2nd, plus all the others were afterwards. I would love to hear from both men and women here. From woman, does watching a man pleasure himself turn you on? If so, what would be your fantasy scenario? I would love to try a new scenario the next time I meet up with another gal. From guys, have you ever done anything like this? For you, what is it about being watched turns you on? As I said for me, it is the initial look on her face, the silent "mmmmmmm" I can sense that is going thru her mind, the nice smile I get when I make full eye contact after she sees my cock, twice I've seen my partner lick her lips. That is an incredible turn-on. I know everyone has their own fetishes and what turns them on sexually. I don't think this is any different than a foot fetish, or another fetish. I would love to hear what you have to say. Thanks for reading my entire post.