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Is porn ruining our love lives?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by Eddie, Oct 26, 2011.

  1. Toaster126

    Toaster126 New Member

    I see porn much like something like Facebook - the effect it has on people says more about the people than the thing itself. Some people will find porn as a driver for their own insecurities, some will use it as an escape, some as an inspiration, some as a way to become closer to ones they want to, etc. Rather than pointing to porn as a solution or symptom, people need to look inward and find the root causes.
     
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  2. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize. Donor

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    In my formative years porn was printed material, unless you had a Super 8 projector, which I didn't.

    Porn gave me many ideas about what I'd like to try, but somehow I knew that real sex with real women in real life would not be like sex in porn. You could say Penthouse Variations and Cosmopolitan (back when it was a good magazine) provided a balance of sorts.

    But for the generation that grew up with easy access to porn, yes, I can see unrealistic expectations as a potentially real problem. Especially for those who don't have at least some reality checks.
     
  3. Remixer

    Remixer Middle Eastern Doofus Donor

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    Don't have too much of a strong (or even formed) opinion on this one. Mainly just bits and pieces that will continue to develop over time.

    I used to be very pro-porn, but in recent years I am increasingly getting the impression that for many guys of my generation (starting puberty when the internet, and thus porn access, really took off) its 24/7 access has caused severe issues in their sexuality, especially in relation to women; whether through causing damage to their relationships due to porn addiction, erectile dysfunction, unrealistic/unhealthy expectations of sex, massive objectification of women as part of their formative years, impotence due to Madonna-Whore complex, etc etc etc.

    The very general thought for me is that my former stance on porn/casual sex was far more self-serving in nature than anything remotely to being a true follower of the sex-positive mindset. Just my anecdotal perspective, but there's very few hetero guys that wouldn't greatly enjoy women taking their clothes off so it naturally follows to egg them on in maximizing skin exposure and, ultimately, promiscuity (=> increasing access to, and thus likelihood for, sex).

    I have a (currently) fleeting suspicion that the hyper-availability of sex - both digital and physical - may actually end up turning out to be a bad thing for society as a whole, affecting men and women equally badly (albeit differently). I recognize it's a pretty complex topic, and am mainly waiting for more literature and results of large-scale, long-term studies deeply and thoroughly assessing this topic to be published before I'd cement my thoughts on it in any way.
     
  4. Frankie

    Frankie Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    New England
    I enjoy Interracial porn with my wife and it has only enhanced our sex life. Not to mention that I’ve learned a few tricks from porn. I also enjoy vintage porn more so than the new stuff.
     
  5. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    Ahhh interracial porn.

    Aka black dude fucking a white woman.

    Sure theres interracial porn of all types but they never mean south American fucks Mongolian.
     
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  6. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize. Donor

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    I've ranted ad nauseam about porn and its (potential?) role in unrealistic expectations. Blacking and BBC, namely white women with black men who have huge cocks, takes it to new level.

    Not that I'm kink/turn-on bashing. What ever gets your blood pumping.

    Note: It's not just porn. Alex Haley in his novel Roots mentioned the white slavers had small "fotos."
     
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  7. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    Whats kinda funny though is those HUGE cocks are potentially prosthetic, I personally think most are, but I've seen in a few over the years where they come loose. I wonder if this started because its easier to do it with a black man and cover the join compared to a lighter skinned guy with makeup on camera. While some racial stereotypes are true, central Africans have *slightly* longer penises and NE Asians slightly smaller than the European average, we are talking about +- 1 inch or so. I makes sense too being too big a penis is basically non-functional for its intended purpose.

    Statistically the average black and white guy are the same, Asians slightly smaller but only slightly.
     
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  8. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize. Donor

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    That is what most of the studies say. IIRC interviews with prostitutes confirm no real difference, unusually large is unusual regardless of color.

    As long as there is a market for Blacking & BBC in porn, the myth doesn't matter. Which holds true for "regular" porn as well.
     
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  9. ASU2003

    ASU2003 Very Tilted Donor

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    It will be interesting to see if the Alt-Right/Foreign Trolls use Interracial Porn again on PornHub and 4Chan to piss off the racist white guys to get them to vote for their guy. It happened in 2016, and the comment sections were pretty bad.
     
  10. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    Its one of those things I don't really grok, and there is a certain bit of racism involved which makes me uncomfortable. Its kinda like the racism of low expectations, if not the same thing, its like the black dudes "don't count" as people, just sex toys. This is a thing in swinging for some, mostly the 50-60 crowd. Back when I was active online in swinging discussions someone said his reason for only having his wife with black guys was because he knew she would never leave him for a black man, and even though that was at least 10 years ago it still struck me as "wrong" on many levels. Its a fetish practice I don't get because when my wife and I swing, I am just the opposite, I want whatever guy is with my wife to be a quality guy who I respect, shes my wife, and anyone I thought was "unworthy" I would not want her to experience.
     
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  11. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

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    i think the BBC is more of a fantasy thing either for the women or the men. ive seen a few where they remove their pants and it slaps the woman in the face. but if thats your thing then go for it. not me personally. i agree with @Herculite if my woman was with another man i would want him to be a nice respectful guy.
     
  12. ASU2003

    ASU2003 Very Tilted Donor

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    It is just one of those conspiracy theories that I have, but I did see it happening in October of 2016 where black guy porn was posted a lot more frequently. And in the comments were a lot of pissed off white dudes getting angry.
     
  13. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    I doubt that there was a massive increase in porn production just to piss off white guys. The current explosion is on "Step Sister/Brother/Mother/Father" porn and I can't see how that would be targeted for anything, and I find that far more off than any interracial porn and the "step" is just put in there to avoid any backlash, its really more about incest.

    The porn industry these days is so fragmented and I'll assume its just copy cat from a huge less increasingly less profitable per worker industry. I can't see any pattern.
     
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  14. ASU2003

    ASU2003 Very Tilted Donor

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    They aren't producing it, these are white political operatives re-posting existing video clips and pictures all over and then making comments that will make people pissed off at black males. I don't know what country they are in either, as this would be an easy thing for a foreign organization to do.

    But, they have enough money to probably persuade a some white female porn stars to make their first interracial porn though if they wanted to do that.

    Racism rising since Brexit vote, nationwide study reveals
     
  15. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

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    I doubt that most white pornstars are averse to making porn with black males.
     
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  16. ASU2003

    ASU2003 Very Tilted Donor

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    The issue is that one political party needs large numbers of white men to vote for them. And while nobody polls white guys on how they feel, I have a feeling that it isn't a small percentage that don't like seeing black guys sleeping with white girls instead of them. And if one party runs on punishing and jailing black guys, while the other one promotes diversity, it isn't too big of a jump to know that showing these people interracial porn all over the websites they go will impact their political choices.

    Racist White Men – Much Like Black Women An Open Enemy Of SYSBM
     
  17. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted


    View: https://www.reddit.com/r/conspiracy/comments/6n28fy/any_good_info_on_the_idea_that_porn_is_a_psyop/


    The male mind loves conspiracy thinking. If it helps the other side, its obviously a nefarious plan! 911 brought this out to the public eye more than anything but its been something men do since probably forever. When it comes to effect though? I mean lets think about this planning stage.

    Ok we are evil Republican (tm) HQ have come up with a great plan to get people who were going to vote for us, to vote for us. We'll fund thousands of videos where cute white women get fucked by black men with giant prosthetic penises that look totally real. Then we'll send trolls into the comment section on various porn sites talking about them fucking our white women. We'll do this through a dozen front companies and we already secretly bought the domain blacked.com! It can't fail!

    But aren't these guys already voting for us?

    Well yea, but this is so awesome!

    You just like black cock don't you Fred? It's ok, we all know you are gay.

    ...

     
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