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Kissing your partner just after giving or receiving oral sex

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by Chris Noyb, Mar 17, 2014.

  1. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    OK folks, I'll start the thread.

    How do you feel about kissing your partner/being kissed by your partner just after oral sex?

    Ladies, do you mind?
    --Maybe as long as his (or her) face isn't covered in your juices.
    --Maybe you don't mind, or even like it, when their face is covered in your juices.

    If you perform felatio, does it bother you if they turn their head away to avoid your kiss, or otherwise send a clear "No thanks!" message? Why, or why not?


    Gentlemen, do you mind?
    --Maybe as long as the BJ didn't include you ejaculating.
    --Maybe you don't mind knowing that just a few seconds earlier your semen was in their mouth.

    When you perform cunnilingus, does it bother you if they turn away to avoid your kiss, or otherwise send a clear "No thanks!" message? Why, or why not?


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    I have no problem kissing my wife after she gives me a BJ. I find it quite intimate and a turn-on.

    She has no problem with me kissing her after I go down on her (and I have a Balbo beard which makes thing even messier). She's usually enthusiastic.
     
  2. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member Donor

    I don't care. He doesn't care.

    Heh, sometimes we finish with a BJ after regular sex, in which case I'm getting everyone's juices.
     
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  3. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Hmmm.....maybe time for another thread, but not in the open forum.
     
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  4. Katia

    Katia Very Tilted

    Location:
    Earth
    You know come to think of it, I don't think I've tried to kiss him after a BJ. And, I thought I've covered everything. Geez , I got to step up my game!
     
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  5. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Nice double entendre ;).
     
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  6. Spiritsoar

    Spiritsoar Slightly Tilted Donor

    Location:
    New York
    It's never been something that bothers me. If it bothers her, she hasn't indicated it. Kissing during/after any sexytime is pretty standard for us.
     
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  7. Stan

    Stan Resident Dumbass Donor

    Location:
    Colorado
    Sex isn't for the squeamish. ... I'll take my chances, not something I ever considered.
     
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  8. omega

    omega Very Tilted

    Well she swallows so not much is left after I cum. it doesn't bother either of us, kissing after oral sex. Hell, I have kissed her after she was blowing another guy (not to completion).
     
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  9. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    That reminds me of a woman I worked with. She was married and had two kids. She enjoyed sex, but complained that semen was too messy. She also had her husband wear boxer briefs or briefs because she didn't like to see his junk jiggling in boxers.

    Note--You would not believe some of the things that the women would discuss in front of me. Just call me harmless eunich.
     
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  10. Plan9

    Plan9 Standing in the Door Donor

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    I don't care if it's clean or messy but I don't want to be with a partner that can't be messy or handle messy on occasion.

    People shouldn't be super squeamish about their own sex fluids, especially with long term partners.

    Nobody wants to fuck a prude that keeps a moist towelette on their nightstand.

    "Let me do what I want" is the core turn-on.
     
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  11. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    I don't mind, as long as she's not trying to snowball me.

    Sorry, that's my limit. Call me prudish. :D
     
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  12. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Rogue49,

    you are prudish.


    Snowballing and creampie eating definately take the whole sex fluids thing to a different level.
     
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  13. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Well, there's tons of things that people will/won't do, just over borders...and I wouldn't even call them hypocrites...it's just what you're into or not.
    And there are things people will watch...but won't attempt/allow themselves.

    For example, I just did a search on Bing for "snowballing". (out of curiousity... :rolleyes:)
    And I found a small clip of the legend Nina Hartley, doing a rimjob on a guy, who was leveraged upwards, his head down below.
    Kind of what you see guys do to ladies often in these vids, upside down rear leveraged up...but it was him in the position.
    And she just rimmed him until he came...in his own mouth. (I closed it before then, but you could see where it was going...)

    Not something for me...interestingly enough, not the rimjob...that was fine, nor the position...that was fine too.
    But the idea of going after my own cum in volume, didn't do it for me. (neither watching it or desiring it)
    Strange...kissing fine, swallowing no. Weird the way the mind works.

    BTW...in full disclosure, watching a woman swallow or snowballing with another woman is not bothersome at the same time.
    So there's that switch too.

    The lines are blurred in sex, there are many shades of gray.
    Rule 34
     
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  14. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member Donor

    I understand the messy part a bit. After we're done, I want to be relatively clean and dry, otherwise it tickles and I don't want to sleep in a wet spot. During the act, however, it's fair game. I figure that's what towels are for.
     
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  15. martian

    martian Server Monkey Staff Member

    Location:
    Mars
    Look, straight talk? If she's nice enough to put your dick in her mouth and keep it there until you come, you owe it to her not to be squeamish about a kiss after.
     
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  16. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    I should've included a smileythingy after my "prudish" comment :D .

    Yes, nearly everybody has their limits, and there's nothing wrong with limits. To the extinct that one partner doesn't have "But look at what I do for you!" feelings. Which ties into the open communication that should exist between partners.

    Some sexual practices, or even unfulfilled desires, are too much for some people to admit to or discuss. Some are fantasies that folks don't actually want to experience.

    Snowballing, in the sense of dripping saliva & cum into someones mouth, doesn't appeal to me at all. Way too yucky.

    For me, a woman sharing her partner's cum with him in a kiss after a BJ is a total turn-on, as is creampie eating, a guy eating her out after cumming inside of her vagina (not anal, again way too yucky). A woman getting a guy to cum in his own mouth is hot, but not for me personally simply because of the physical contortion required.
     
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  17. Herculite

    Herculite Slightly Tilted

    I've spent most of my life trying to figure out ways to get rid of my ejaculate, I don't want it back ;)
     
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  18. Street Pattern

    Street Pattern Very Tilted Donor

    To quote my answer to this question:
     
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  19. FreeVerse

    FreeVerse Screw Tilted, I'm all the way upside down.

    Location:
    Suburban Chicago

    ROFLMAO. omg. i laughed and laughed and laughed at this, and so completely agree.
     
  20. ThePriseInferno Slightly Tilted Donor

    I care not either way.

    Totally read the rest of this envisioning you with a sideways hat.