My girlfriend is miserable

Yeah... And she just texted me that she was sorry. LOL. =.= I gave her the cold shoulder after the mouse incident this morning.

 

That last comment of yours sounds uncomfortably familiar to some of the girls I knew back in my teens. They all had one common denominator: they were all incredibly immature and could not handle not getting what they want at any whim of theirs. There is no pleasing girls like that. I have incredible doubts that you will come out a winner in any sense, if you continue this.

I agree with Jonie. Find your balls, tell her off and end this degenerate of a relationship.

Then run.

 

LOL I risked that too few months ago :asd:

Jiagi21: she's seeming too me having real problems handling rage, and a compulsory behavior about videogames... be sure of what you're doing, you need to solve this problems to develop a relation, but since you can't talk her out, run as fast as you can...

 

Not only that, she will pester me to buy stuff for her. Little stuff that's affordable but recently she started to ask for more. I just check on my messenger, apparently she raged and screamed at me for this morning. Leaving abruptly without clearing the air, for suggesting something that require her to wait for 45 minutes, told me she wanted a breakup, that I am useless, didn't think before I say something.

 

run my boy, run!

 

And ... ?

How are you going to respond?

You have had the advice already. This is now turning into a blog about the drama-fest. Nothing will change unless you do something different.

 

Yeap. I broke the news to her (We broke off). And chuck my phone to one side. I AM A NEW MAN!!!!! Time to hit the clubs.

 

Threads like these make me smile. It's like a time machine where you get to revisit your Jr. High years and relieve all of the craziness.

Jiaqi21 - To be quite honest and frank with you, I don't for a minute believe you're 21. Perhaps you are, perhaps you're just a late bloomer and this is your first "real" girlfriend so you've put a lot of emotions into it. However, if you were honest with yourself, you'd realize that anyone who uses emotions as a weapon in order to get what they want has some deep rooted issues. Those issues aren't going to get better via a relationship, they're going to get better with medical help.

So in a nutshell, you need to focus on your own happiness and let her find her own. If you're required to "change" for someone, then they aren't interested in loving you, they're interested in playing with you to see what they can accomplish.

In a smaller nutshell - RUN FOREST, RUN!!
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Ok, just saw the "broke it off" news

don't be a fool and think it's over... crazy doesn't wash off so easy.

 

I have to agree with Glory's Sun - crazy doesn't wash off. It shows up at your house holding a boombox above its head with Peter Gabriel playing. It sneaks into your house and boils your pet rabbit. It gives you crabs in that one weak moment when you thoughts "hey, it's just sex, nothing else. We're on the same page." It calls your mom and curses at her.

Glad to see that you're moving on, though, @jiaqui21. Stay strong and ignore her.

 

Mate, I know a 24 yr old who lets himself be treated worse than that.

But yeah, I dont believe he's 21 either.

 

I like you Glory's Sun. That's why I kill you last.

 

On a bigger picture type of thing, because jiaqi21 isn't the first on to have this problem... Why does this happen, and why do people act like that? Does she act like that when she is at school or at work?

 

I just wanna say thanks to everyone that has contributed to this thread. You guys are amazing! Now that I got it over with, I felt a deep sense of relief. All the burden just went off my chest. And for now, cross finger. My ex won't do anything silly. ^^ And yes. I wasn't 21. LOL. :3 but oh well.
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To ASU2003, the bad behaviours manifested when my ex couldn't get something. Or when she wanted something desperately and is frustrated. When she is out in the public, she is usually more reserved. But when someone doesn't follow or do what she wants. All hell break lose.

 

jiaqi21, since I'm the guy that has to get rid of the under-18's, I'm just going to assume that you're 18 and move on. OK?

But when you turn 21, you're going to look back on this and say "my god I was a stupid kid." Promise.

And ASU2003, now you know both why I was posting my earlier "harsh" questions and the answers to your own posed above.

 

maybe this vid is more accurate

 

Hey, at least she didn't grab the knife on the counter.

 

View: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zg6iMDfOl9E&feature=g-all-xit




She grabs the knife.