Need a quick response regarding dating!

I am living proof of that. Except replace awkward with evil and nerdy with a slight napoleon complex.... Maybe not the best example.... either way, I'm giving it to CinnamonGirl almost nightly.

Listen to Plan9, the man knows what he is talking about. We are talking about guns right?

 

Don't ever say that again. It attracts dark antimatter.

 

Which has no weight or gravity, so I think we'll be ok.

 

Enough threadjacking! We need to motivate Mr. Moose.

He's in need of a montage. cynthetiq, go!

 

Plan9: I looked at that site and didn't really find anything I'd be interested in. Most of the groups looked like they had people who are like, 45 and older. I wouldn't fit in. I barely even fit in with my own age group.

I'm looking up escort services. Are they illegal? I'm not against paying someone to talk to me and comfort me in person.
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I really liked the Church she took me to... Reminded me of the one I went to back home. Was a ton of people there, and they all seemed very caring. But now I can't go there because she'll be there. If I seen her with another guy my heart would melt.
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My heart hurts so much right now...

 

Seriously? A cup of coffee and a hit on a hookah and you're pining away like this? Get a grip! If you telegraph this level of needy, you'll have a problem.

Find an interest to occupy your time and your mind. Friendships and relationships will sneak up on you while you're have a good time.

 

Yes, I know I fucking suck already and there's not much I can do about it. I've tried before. I feel like I'm literally about to have a heart-attack right now. You can't fix someone who's mentally fucked up in the head like myself. I've felt like, that if some one, fucking ANYONE without a penis accepted me for ONCE IN MY GODDAMN LIFE I could improve myself. But nobody wants to give me the fucking chance. I "need" help, I can't do it alone. But nobody wants to help. I'm talking about in person.
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You guys don't know what it's like to be hideous. NONE of you can say you'd marry a person with Down's Syndrome. I'm not trying to be offensive, I'm being real. I'm like the person with Down's, although it's not as physical. It's mental. I'm awkward as shit, ugly as shit and I might as well get a handicapped parking sticker. And it fucking SUCKS to live every day alone, knowing that every day until you die you will be alone.
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I feel extremely bad for any woman who would date me.... I am way too needy, way too attached... I'm doing them a favor by not asking them out.... fuck...

 

1) Don't call a person with Down's syndrome ugly.... It's NOT real...at all. And just because someone has a handicap parking sticker doesn't mean they're ugly. I'm fine as fuck.
2) Of course no one really wants to FIX someone. That's basically what you're asking someone to do and it's an awful way to start off a relationship. You will get taken advantage of and it will not end well. You really do need to fix yourself before you try to go into ANY relationship.
3) We all have problems. I may come off as bitchy...but you need to suck it up and stop whining. Sugar coating and coddling isn't going to do you any good. You're not going to get anyone worth having with this attitude and if you think you need someone to be a whole person, you don't deserve to be with someone.

Love that person in the mirror.

“If you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you going to love somebody else?” ~Rupaul.

 

Just to be clear, I'm not saying Down's Syndrome people are "ugly". I think they're beautiful in they're own special way. I've worked with tons of them and they are great people. But nobody is going to want to be in a relationship with one, period. I am very similar to that.

How am I supposed to do this on my own? Everyone has someone in their life to get them motivated. I don't like the people from work, and I don't have friends here. I feel like it'd just be a waste of time.
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How the fuck does someone with social anxiety / introversion even "fix" themselves? I seriously cannot afford to see a psychologist or similar profession

 

Anonymoose

If you REALLY want to fix yourself and not just talk about how broken you are, you will make the effort. Dig deep enough in your area and I am sure you can find some affordable or even free programs that can help. If you are employed, I bet there are services through HR. Student? You probably already pay for services through your student fees. I know the kids at my university do.

It looks like you are a Christian. You can talk to someone in the church for help. You can ask the pastor/priest/minister at that place you went with that lady even. You probably don't even have to set foot on the church grounds as he/she is most likely available via telephone or email.

 

I have a job so I'd have to pay for a psychiatrist out of pocket. Also, I'd honestly kill myself before I went to one. I will never in my life pay to go to one.

I'm also not a Christian, I'm agnostic. I was just trying to look for people who wouldn't judge me, and who would give me a chance. But obviously even they judge too.

 

Dude. C'mon. I don't have a penis, and I totally accept you. I'm not gonna make out with you, though, 'cause, y'know, the screen kinda gets in the way.

Therapy isn't weakness of any sort. I wish more people realized that.


Also, I very much doubt you're "hideous." Everyone says this to themselves. No one is actually correct in saying so.

 

Oh Sweet JESUS Anonymoose

It takes a STRONG person to admit they need help and go to therapy. I learned this lesson.

It's obvious you don't REALLY want to fix yourself...you just want to whine and bitch about how your life sucks. Well, I hate to break it to you cupcake, but it does suck big fat donkey dick. Especially if you don't do anything about it. It's just going to continue to suck. While you're saying, "why me?" someone is saying "Why not me?" and is totally going to gain more points in life.

Best of luck finding a girl who pities your sorry ass.

(ZombieSquirrel's Opinions do not reflect that of TFP as a whole.)

 

Some people need a kick in the face to wake them up. ZombieSquirrel is your alarm clock.

 

And there ain't no snooze button! Just a shot to the crotch.

 

Better hope there's no snooze button with that kind of aim.