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Nudity among Family

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by genuinemommy, Aug 13, 2014.

  1. Wildmermaid

    Wildmermaid Very Tilted

    Location:
    Pacific Northwest
    I think it is a tragically beautiful memory and thank you for sharing it. <3
     
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  2. greywolf

    greywolf Slightly Tilted

    My wife is very conservative about nudity, and that has rubbed off on my children as they got older. I am far more casual, but out of deference to my family's preferences, don't run around naked. My kids aren't sure whether or not my stories are true about the clothing-optional swimming hole near where I grew up (they are). That sort of explains at least part of my unconcern about occasional nudity.

    Modesty with kids really seems to hit home with adolescence, for obvious reasons. Many years ago, when my first son was about 3, I remember standing on my back deck, talking to my neighbour, and casually asking him, "Why is my son running naked through your back yard?". He replied just as casually, "Well, I'm not sure, but it here comes my son just as naked, and it kind of looks like they are running from my daughter." She, at least, had a shirt on. Never did find out what was going on.
     
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  3. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

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    I remember doing things like that with my neighbor and his sister, we were about 8 or 9
     
  4. I know this is very common in Europe, but I wouldn't be comfortable being nude around my parents, step-children, or siblings. I don't recall ever having seen my parents nude, and haven't seen siblings nude since they were babies.
     
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  5. POPEYE

    POPEYE Very Tilted

    Location:
    Tulsa
    Interesting to me, I was just thinking about this subject this past weekend.
    My GS and I see eachother naked almost daily. He is 5 going on 6 yrs.
    We've done this for at least two years. Well since he came to live with me. I get him ready for his day every day. And run bubble baths on the weekend which turns into him just playing while I do something else.
    I keep him and his privates clean. If I didn't he wouldn't. So at what age do I stop? IDK
     
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  6. Azharen

    Azharen Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Springfield, OR
    I would say it is time to start having him take the lead on that. That way it starts becoming routine for him.
     
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  7. Dwinit

    Dwinit New Member

    Location:
    Ohio
    I'm not sure that being naked around your children is a good thing. This behavior could lead them to being more promiscuous in the future.
     
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  8. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Looks like your first post.:) Welcome to the TFP, @Dwinit !
     
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  9. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist Donor

    Location:
    North

    Yeah, no.

    I can think of a lot of reasons that being naked around your kids might be complicated, being more promiscuous in the future isn't one of them.
    There are many people who have been raised in homes were nudity is common.
    There is no proof that they are any more sexually active then kids raised in more conservative homes.

    And as Lindy says, Welcome to TFP.
     
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  10. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize. Donor

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Maybe. Maybe not.

    Kids used to nudity might be less curious which might make them less likely to rush into sex.

    No doubt this has been studied.
     
  11. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I suspect that, as usual, there are different standards that define promiscuity for girls and boys.:rolleyes:

    There was some familial nudity in my family and I was an "early adopter" of sexual activity.

    But that association does not establish causality.
     
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  12. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize. Donor

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    No way :p.
     
  13. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Hah! Proof: I ran across this while trolling my sister's Facebook page...

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  14. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

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    Best ever

    Sent from my VS996 using Tapatalk
     
  15. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize. Donor

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Taken care of?

    Warnings, or

    pointers?
     
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  16. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    The body language of the deputies looks like anything but "how to get in her pants" pointers.:rolleyes:

    Dads get overly protective of their daughters' "virtue." I'm incredibly grateful that Dad (and Mom too) were able to accept and recognize my sexuality. Instead of trying to put that genie back in the bottle. Which would only have driven me away from my family.:( They both helped me with avoiding pregnancy, STDs, and cautioned me about dangerous situations. And that I could not only hurt myself, but also others.

    TFP brothers, if one of your daughters turns out to be a hyper-sexual (like me) treat her with empathy and understanding. Don't clamp down, and don't take her sexuality as a failing on your part.
     
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  17. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize. Donor

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    The image is obviously posed. I thought my attempt at humor was obvious.
     
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  18. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Your intent flew right over my head.:rolleyes:
     
  19. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & don't criticize. Donor

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Using the laptop it's easy to add ;):):D:p.

    On my phone I've yet to figure out how to use the TFP emoticons. From what I've seen the phone emogees don't show in my posts here.

    Technophobe? No.
    Technodumbass? Yes. :oops:
     
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  20. martian

    martian Server Monkey Staff Member

    Location:
    Mars
    I haven't really given much thought to my daughter's sexuality or how I'll handle it. Off the cuff answer: probably as little as possible. Make sure she stays safe and uses protection, make sure she knows that it's her body and nobody else's, and that nobody (including me) has right or reason to dictate how and when she chooses to use it, but apart from that I think I probably want to know as little as possible. Even thinking about it now is profoundly disconcerting for me. I'm pretty far out into hippy-doo liberal feminist land but contemplating my daughter's future sex life still manages to fall well outside my comfort zone.

    But I also don't think nudity is inherently sexual, so that doesn't have much bearing on this thread.

    My daughter and I had a bath together tonight. We splashed each other, and played with her rubber duckie. It was fun.
     
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