Hi all. It's been quite awhile since I've posted anything but I'm looking for some unbiased advice and I think you folks fit the bill. My husband recently asked me to consider an open marriage. We have been married 14 years, together for 18. I have a much lower libido than he does and he is not satisfied. I recently started therapy - myself only, not couples - because of multiple issues I'm dealing with, including this one. I guess I'm just asking if any of you folks have had success in this area. Logically, I think humans are meant to be serial monogamists. Just my opinion. My heart is having a hell of a time accepting that. Hubby and I have been talking extensively about this so lack of communication isn't an issue, but perhaps lack of focused communication is. I don't know. All I do know is this is tearing me up because I can't see any good outcome regardless of what choice I make. Any perspective?