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Threesomes

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by pulliamryan, Feb 13, 2019.

  1. pulliamryan

    pulliamryan New Member

    Location:
    US
    Ok. A ffm thressome has always been a huge turn on for me. Needless to say, my wife is less than thrilled about the idea. When we drink, she gets very flirty with girls and likes kissing and rubbing, but that's about the extent of it. Also she says she thinks she would get jealous of me interacting with another woman.

    My question is, what's the best way to get her warmed up to the idea, without making her feel like she isnt enough. Because that's far from the truth. My wife is sextant sexual! I am just very turned on by a threesome.

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  2. Frankie

    Frankie Getting Tilted

    Location:
    New England
    Your not alone in this typical male fantasy. I have no idea what to tell you except good luck. My wife and I have had 3sums but they were MFM.
     
  3. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    Someone sent the swingers signal into the sky and here I am.

    So you want to have a FMF, first off take a number. Its the first thing most couples look into when they start non-monogamy. Usually because its guy safe, no evil other penises.

    This means a few things. One is single females wanting to join you are hard to find, the name in non-monogamy is "unicorn" because they are so hard to find and everyone wants one.

    But lets not put the cart before the unicorn.

    You want to know how to get her to want to have a FMF? Well ask yourself this question. If she came to you wanting a MFM what would YOU say? What could she say or do to make you want to do it?

    The long and the short of it is SHE is going to have to want to do it. For me, my wife is bisexual, this made things easier, and she agreed to try an FMF if it was possible (it wasn't for a long time, we became swingers first and finally had some FMF's much later).

    But I knew my wife inside and out, I knew what her fantasies were, and I knew how her brain worked. I don't know your wife. You gotta get inside her sexual head, her fantasies, and go from there. It can't be about what you want, make it about what she wants.
     
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  4. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    I've had a few "almosts"
    But circumstances blew it off course.
    One of which was me actually walking away from one of my first scenarios...just to get to one of my first job's first days. (oh, if I could only go back in time to smack myself in the head :rolleyes: I should have stayed)

    Recently, my ex-gf asked me about it...and we were considering it for her (FMF) But our fate together slowly drifted askew.
    The sex part was excellent, we had that down and then some ...but the remaining parts were not good for me.

    Maybe the fates will have other plans for me, I'm not opposed to it...but I don't push for it either. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, c'est la vie.
    To me, it's about the relationship first and going with the flow to complement it.
     
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  5. steelguy71 New Member

    Location:
    CA
    I'm no expert on the subject but in order for any threeway action to be a total success, all parties involved must be up for it 100% and not doing it just to please their partner(s).

    An in-depth open discussion is definitely required beforehand, and also afterward in order to find out what your partner(s) enjoyed, if they would try it again, etc.

    Lotsa luck buddy

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