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Titoriented - bi, gay, artlover, noneoftheabove? (NSFW)

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by girldetective, Aug 1, 2013.

  1. girldetective

    girldetective Getting Tilted

    When the nowgawdawful Big Dog came into my life 6 years ago, my world changed. Sexuality became a topic to be discussed rather than ignored with a deft set aside. Somehow Ive gone from the gentile artful crowd to the more nativebarefootjubilee, and I sort of like it. I like sexing it up whether it be in pictures, text, or voice. I seem to be able to be dirty, yet still (mini)skirt around edges of not too dirty.

    I identify as straight and always have. I am penis oriented and Kegel it up like nobodys beeswax. Bbbuuut, I am also so breastoriented. I like mine, and sneaking peeks at others. I have never had the opportunity to touch a breast. If I did, I might swoon, dip the girl, and suck like an 8 mo old infant. I like the idea of being sated and blushed. I picture saliva and firm nips, and a smile on my face.

    What the hell has that Dog herked up in me? What the hell is the problem here? Am I destined for a job as a lactation expert, a wet nurse (my dream come true!) (or gawdforbid! her customer?), or am I the product of a breasthungry, women are beautiful culture? Is it that I appreciate my own gender, because I relate, that is who I am? Is it that maternal feeling? Is it sexual at all, or just that I appreciate of a full life art form? An acquaintance of mine, a female cop, finely draws various lingerie in pencil. She is not gay, but appreciates being female and celebrates it. I think that is what I am feeling, the fullness of being female. I mean, I have the ability to unbutton and pull it out for examination and a bit of tongue, too. And I like that and think of that re men. But if I had an opportunity to suck tit, I would. However, I have no interest in any girl checkin out the downstairs, or vice versa.

    So fucking precious.
    Geez. WTF?
     
  2. DamnitAll

    DamnitAll Wait... what?

    Location:
    Central MD
    I'll answer your question with one of my own: does it matter enough to you that you need to put a label on what this is, or what you are in this context, or can you be happy/satisfied just knowing that you'd suck on a woman's tit if given the chance but not have much interest in doing anything else?

    As I grow older I find myself believing more and more in the fluidity of the sexual(ity) spectrum, so much so that I believe anyone can sit anywhere on that spectrum and potentially stay there for his or her entire life, or traverse it a few times or even many times over that lifetime. Maybe that's just because I haven't felt conflicted about myself and my own position(s) on that spectrum in a long time.
     
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  3. mixedmedia

    mixedmedia ...

    Location:
    Florida
    Tits are beautiful.
     
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  4. girldetective

    girldetective Getting Tilted

    Damnitall:
    That is wonderful reply. No joke.
    Really, there is nothing more to be said.

    Except, you know that if I were to reveal that, some dick, somewhere would reply with, "Stick n pick" or "Lets have a 3some!" and it would be good to have a clear and trite answer for them. And yes, it sort of is important to me to identify myself correctly for whatever reason.

    MM:
    Yep, theyre all over fab.
     
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  5. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage Donor

    Location:
    Temasek
    I am a firm believer in the sexuality spectrum and I would say that I am reasonably fluid on where I sit.
     
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  6. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member Donor


    Yup. There's me.

    I say I'm bi for the ease of other people. Where I am, though, is up to me--and the individual. I'm either interested in people or I'm not. I can think of a female colleague of my husband's who does not appeal to me in the slightest, mostly because she has apparently neutered herself via her relationship. I can think of some women of my acquaintance that I just seem to click with, or admire, in a totally different way. I've wrangled with women as well. There's actually a woman who cut a swath through my late university years that I would like to write a book about. We were both totally in denial, by the way. The experience with her really rounded me out and taught me quite a bit about my sexual preference. Unfortunately (fortunately?), right as I was really understanding myself, I met my future husband! However, I still love women. Mmmm, women...and men...and Japanese dickgirls...I'm REALLY fluid!

    Seriously...I would do anyone if I liked them well enough. Genitalia is an afterthought. Anyone could please me, I'm sure of it!
     
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  7. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    I also believe in sexual fluidity, there should be no thought about it, you like what you like.
    That being said, I'm very straight...don't know why, it just is.

    These days, it is easier to know your flow...as you see a multitude of pictures on the Internet in the privacy of your own home/room
    you'll know what's hitting you or not.

    Simply enjoy.
     
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  8. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage Donor

    Location:
    Temasek
    That's a very good point. Those who are still not exploring the possibilities of polymorphous perversity on the Internet, are doing it wrong. If nothing else, it should be able to give everyone a clearer understanding of where you draw your line.
     
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  9. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    I am heterosexual. I swoon for men. Mmmm beautiful men. Straight men, bi men, gay men... That last one has made my crushing heart break more than once. I don't recall being attracted to or having feelings for a female. The only 'exception' being a f->m post-op transgendered individual with a truly beautiful mind (but sadly he was interested in men).
     
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  10. fresnelly

    fresnelly Getting Tilted

    Location:
    Toronto
    I like your use of term "Artlover" because it's a fitting description for my feelings. I can totally appreciate a well put together male form aesthetically, but it does nothing for that lizard part of my brain; the one that's tickled equally by feminine curves and BBQ woodsmoke and not at all by square bearded jawlines.

    Maybe it's a beta thing too. Must be in awe of the alpha god dominating the room with his steely gaze and flat stomach.
     
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  11. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I guess that I just missed this thread last month. It must have come up when, for some reason, I was away from the computer for a few days.
    I love tits. The shapes, the warmth, the pendulous weight, and especially the way tits move... Many (not all) men, unfortunately, seem to just divide them into big and small, and let it go at that.

    Like girldetective I put myself firmly in the hetero realm of the sexual continuum and have been strongly penis oriented since I first got one in my hands at age fourteen. I love the way they (and their appurtenances) feel and the way they react and I love the ejaculation, and I especially love those few seconds right afterwards...

    But I do love breasts with their aesthetic, erotic, and erogenous complexity too.

    I love men's obsession with them, which allowed me to make quite a pile of money before I "retired" my breasts from the stripper circuit about ten years ago.
    girldetective I love and identify with your description of yourself in the opening post. Especially the "able to be dirty yet still (mini)skirt around the edges of not too dirty." Beautifully said. Like you, I love sexing it up in many ways but I think the overdone "dirty talk" in most porn is just gross, and to me, a major turnoff.

    I can suck on my own nips, but for some reason it's not especially erotic when I do it. It has to be my partner. It should work, right? Who else knows better what to do? But not... Maybe it's like why I can't tickle myself. Pinching, pulling, flicking, scratching, icing, etc. during masturbation turn me on much more.
    I've had fantasies and dreams of another woman doing me orally, so perhaps I could be described as "bi-curious" but I don't think I would actually go through with it. And my guy Sig has gotten so good at it that I can't imagine a woman being better, except for the excitement of newness maybe.
    Internet porn, in all its infinite variety, allows for a "virtual test drive" of just about any sexual path or situation. I've traveled down a few paths that turned my stomach, but many more were just dull, or boring. Or WTF? My reaction to Japanese mosaic porn. Imagine a titfucking scene with a mosaic so that you can see neither the tits or the cock. WTF?
     
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  12. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Well, on the first point...that's why I mute most things I view. Audio context just doesn't seem real.
    And to be honest, many of the "actors" just sound inane...I prefer a more intelligent and sincere participant. So the visuals are enough for getting off on for me.

    On the second...this is understandable, because you "know" what and when you are doing what you are doing to yourself.
    Often half the stimulation you get is from your senses "not knowing" when and where something is going to be touched.
    Certainly I much prefer a woman kissing me all over than attempting to kiss myself. Hell, even a handjob is better from a woman than me getting myself off.
    Of course, it helps if your helper is doing it right...if they aren't, then you'll get the opposite effect.

    On viewing the varieties of adult fare available these days...
    It's kind of like the wine tasting festival I went to yesterday.
    While you may enjoy a bottle of a particular wine in full typically at a meal or sitting,
    the wine tasting allowing you to try out some many in so close a period of time, makes each flavor distinct...so you can tell the difference and what you actually like and don't like.

    Some are nice...some blah, some you can tell the flavors and smells...
    Some you'd think you would not like...then surprisingly you DO like it.
    Like the tastings, the media allows you quick and close access to much.

    But like wine, you just got to know when enough is enough and sometimes too much.
    Then again, sometimes it's worth the hangover and exhaustion...yum ;)

    C'est la vie...such is life.
     
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  13. girldetective

    girldetective Getting Tilted

    Lindy wrote, " I can suck on my own nips...."

    girldetective replies, "?!"
     
  14. OffKilter

    OffKilter New Member

    Well, I certainly wish I could.
     
  15. DamnitAll

    DamnitAll Wait... what?

    Location:
    Central MD
    Relevant:



    h/t: @GeneticShift
     
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  16. Street Pattern

    Street Pattern Very Tilted Donor

    I have the exact opposite reaction:

    Sucking a penis, no problem. (BTDT)

    Kissing a guy on the mouth, no thanks.
     
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  17. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Just Brilliant :)
    But dammit...now I'm going to have to listen to all their songs.

    Gotta love their "flip script" on the classic rap video. "This Party Took a Turn for the Douche "
    [​IMG]
     
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  18. MSD

    MSD Very Tilted

    Location:
    CT
    Boobs are pretty great in general. I don't think you need a label for appreciating them.
     
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  19. Daniel_

    Daniel_ The devil made me do it...

    I am unable to disagree.

    Mind you, "tits" seems a harsh and angular word. "Boobs" has such a lovely, rounded mouth feel. It's almost onomatopoeic.
     
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  20. girldetective

    girldetective Getting Tilted

    Tits does sound (and can be!) angular, and almost onomatopoeic too, but I dont think the word harsh so much as playful.

    I find the the word boobs somewhat offensive, and Im not sure why. I hear it all the time, used by all sorts of people in most any venue and I know its certainly acceptable, yet I sort of cringe when I hear it. In conversation you would hear me say breasts. When writing, feeling frisky or high on my horse, I pull out tits.

    Sometimes both.
     
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