Why do you think it’s so hard for people to say they’re sorry? Do you have a hard time apologizing when you've made a mistake/wronged someone? Why? I used to have a really hard time apologizing to people. Not that I would hold any grudges, I mean I'm the one that fucked up and was just trying to wiggle my way out of the situation without apologizing. I used to deflect all that I could and project the issue somewhere else. In my early adult life, I have learned to accept responsibility for my mistakes and apologize for them and correct them. I must say it sucks to eat humble pie. It really does. I believe it makes me a better person for doing so, the sooner I do it. I believe that others don't want to do apologize because they can't see that they actually did something wrong. Many people tend to believe that they didn't do something wrong because they just can't believe that they make mistakes.