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Women's opinion on facial cumshots?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by SpecialK, Apr 29, 2013.

  1. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    Silly is the word!:) But I have to be careful. I think most fetish things are silly. Like all the stuff with extreme shoes and other foot fetishes. But those who are into fetishes are sometimes quite touchy about it, as I found out in another thread when I mentioned something about female body builders looking like Iggy Pop with AA cup tits.
    I like this also. My guy loves an hour long fuckfest ( the fucking is the foreplay) finished off with a boobjack.:)
    I do love watching it spurt out!
    But not when the stunt cock has to resort to finishing himself off by hand to get a money shot, and properly deliver it to the eager girl's face. Yuck.

    I do like the sub-genre of porn called "female completion" where the woman brings the cock to orgasm, most often, it seems, by mouth, hand , or tits, or some combination thereof. Or two girls and one guy.
    It is sad, though, that this is so seldom seen in porn that it has a name.
    But do I like watching cumshots where the girl gets the guy off. The timing, the switching back and forth hand to mouth... Often something to learn there... and I love watching my guy shooting streams of jizz, just not in my face.:D (Yes, off to the masturbation...

    The facial (along with gaping anal) has become de rigueur in 21st Century porn.

    Sadly enough, much of porn seems bent upon the idea that fucking is something that a guy does TO the woman, not something he does WITH her. And she has to like it that way.
     
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  2. pan6467

    pan6467 a triangle in a circular world.

    I agree, I think it is degrading, gross and pointless. It's not something I even think about. Now between tits, is a different story. It's like anal, I just have no use for it.

    I look at love making as 2 partners trying to please the other into ecstasy. The weird part is I love giving oral but receiving is another "I can take it or leave it. Unless you are extremely good, it truly doesn't do anything for me." On the other hand a good hand job while I am eating... is always welcome.
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    This sadly is very true. I prefer f/f and I detest women being treated as objects. It is desensitizing the youth to the pleasures of sex.

    Maybe I have seen too many movies on the sex trade and how they get the women/girls.
     
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  3. AlterMoose

    AlterMoose Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    Pangaea
    Since some of the other dudes are weighing in, I don't so much mind adding my pair of coppers. I've tried cumming on the wife's face in the past, and I must agree that it just doesn't make the translation from the screen to real life. I enjoy watching facials--when the receiver wants it and is enjoying it, anyway--but just somehow couldn't get on board with actually doing it. Maybe because I respect my partner too much, and because I know she doesn't really care for it. However, I do really, really, REALLY enjoy doing her doggy-style (her favourite position) and letting fly over her rump and back. She doesn't prefer it when I ejaculate inside her, since she often doesn't want to deal with that particular clean-up. She does enjoy the feel of my semen on her skin, and gets off on it when I lick her clean.
     
  4. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Not speaking for the ladies here.
    But I don't think it happens intentionally for the most part, it just goes where it goes. Can't control that stuff. :eek:
     
  5. beltoro

    beltoro New Member

    Location:
    Texas
    I simply think it is degrading to both the male and female. I would never do it unless the woman asked me to and the I would want her to direct the ejeculation where she wanted to land.....................
     
  6. greywolf

    greywolf Slightly Tilted

    I've never really understood the appeal of facials. I have no objection to cum ending up wherever it does, but I've always preferred it be someplace inside her, lol. Not to say that if things get out of hand otherwise it isn't fun, but I've never had any desire to plan to cum on her. And I think that's the difference... if it happens, fine, but if you're looking to, it can certainly be degrading.
     
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  7. arkana

    arkana Very Tilted

    Location:
    canada
    They usually *are* the last thing you see in a porn video... WHACKITY SCHMACKITY DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

    BTW it's dumb that about half the "Women's Opinion on Facial Cumshots" thread is posted on by men. Sorry for my bluntness.
     
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  8. *Nikki*

    *Nikki* Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    Stateside
    It doesn't bother me but I am not going to be like "please cum on my face" either.
     
  9. Gorgo

    Gorgo Vertical

    Location:
    San Francisco, CA
    Facials are just good clean fun. Okay, maybe not clean.

    It's not any good if you have to do it yourself, though. If a woman is into it and does the "stop sucking and jerk it two-handed" thing onto her chin, it's amazing. But it's not something I ever ask for, much like anal.
     
  10. Manic

    Manic Getting Tilted

    Location:
    NYC
    I've done it, I've requested it and I've had it demanded of me and I've never seen it as degrading. The real life dynamics of sex have made it clear to me that it was something I was (lucky to be) given.

    That said, I'm not too evolved or sensitive to enjoy power play, degrading and being degraded. So long as it's safe, I prefer to leave all options on the table.
     
  11. Saturn69 New Member

    My wife loves watching me cum, likes it on her boobs, but she would much rather have it in her.
     
  12. Joniemack

    Joniemack Beta brainwaves in session

    Location:
    Reading, UK
    Pardon me for being presumptuous, but I can already guess what you're here for Saturn.:p No prob. Have fun.
     
  13. PlaysWithPixels

    PlaysWithPixels Getting Tilted

    Depends on who's in control I think. I can't stand having someone touch the back of my head or pull on my hair. Kind of ironic since I like my hair "played with." Generally I can control where he will be cumming. (And I have swatted a guys hand away and threatened to stop when he tried touching the back of my head.)

    To the original question - I don't like it in my face. I would feel like he was trying to degrade me (since obviously the guy would be forcing the issue in my case) and while I might not necessarily feel degraded, I would lose respect for him having that intention towards me. That's just me though.

    I think generally in fetish behavior between couples that find it acceptable it's something that's been discussed. "Gee honey, I want you to degrade me and treat me like your dirty little slut." "Okay baby."

    Or that's the world I'd like to live in anyway....
     
  14. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    Location:
    At work..
    If i were to cum on my wife's face lets just say she would proablly beat the hell out of me. That is all!!
     
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  15. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

    Really? She never complains when I do it!
    Bada-bing! (Elbow to Raphie's ribs).
     
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  16. CinnamonGirl

    CinnamonGirl The Cheat is GROUNDED!

    *facepalm*
     
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  17. kitten

    kitten New Member

    Facials don't really bother me and in the heat of the moment, why not? The man I'm with likes them occasionally and they don't do much for me one way or another. Sex should be fun.. And messy ;)
     
  18. Seaver

    Seaver Vertical

    Location:
    Dallas
    As a guy I've never understood it. Cum inside her where it feels so much better. I can finish by hand anytime, when I'm with my partner I want us both to feel it.
     
  19. Indigo Kid

    Indigo Kid Getting Tilted

    I'm a lady and I'd rather watch a facial in a porn vid than get one. It's not my style. But...If the BF really needed me to do this, well...I'd adapt. on special occasions.
     
  20. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect Donor

    Location:
    At work..
    At least one of us can do it. :D