69. tons of fun? or a waste of good oral sex?

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All of my sex partners thus far have been close to my own height. I'm of pretty average size at, uh, 5'7". Height is not the issue for me, rather it is simply being underwhelmed by the act. I mean, I will do it if that's what my partner wants...i am more than happy to oblige because pleasing...that's my thing. But I could easily go the rest of my sex life without it and never miss it.

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Honestly, I'm not a big fan either, I find I spend too much time paying attention to what I'm doing rather than what I'm recieving and don't totally enjoy either. I'd rather take turns so we can both relax and totally enjoy the sensation in turn.

 

Gotta go with tons of fun. That said, most of the time, I'd rather just have a good BJ (since it's going to be better with her tongue on the bottom of the shaft than on the top). If a face sitting (which I really like) turns into 69, that's fine by me, but that's not expected. And sometimes (More often than not, really) I do want to put all my attention into licking her. It's just another thing in the toolbox. A pretty good thing. That said, I've never gotten all the way off from it. To the best of my knowledge, neither has the missus.

The height thing would be a problem if I weren't married to a girl about the right height for it (5'6" to my 6'2"). The thrusting thing would be a problem, except she enjoys that.

It's never all or even a majority of a session. Tends to be something that comes along toward the back half of foreplay once in a while.

Nipple 69, mutual nipple sucking, that's a whole 'nother story and is Awesome as all get out.

 

it's like doing 10 miles an hour on a roller coaster. the view is pretty sweet but the experience is lacking

 

maybe we arnt doing it right... LOL

 

I'm going to need a lot of practice.

 

That's a ridiculous position, awkward uncomfortbale and so unsexy I don't why people even do it.

 

Unless I hook up with a WNBA player, I don't think it would be physically possible. Just as well, I'm the kind of person who can't walk and chew gum at the same time.

 

It's OK. I don't think you have to chew gum at the same time.

 

I agree w most that it is not ground-breaking. I prefer variations of it, such as girl suspended upside down w man standing or one partner standing beside the chosen surface, with weight on legs instead of on partner. This way, nobody gets crushed and you can maintain enough room to produce the required friction. Reworking it does alter its classic milieu, however.

But yeah, nobody ever gets off from it.

 

I'm not against any position that puts me in a situation that I get to get my dick sucked (females only, back off boystown). That said, I'm not a fan of 69.

You know how when you do the "Rub your belly and pat your head" thing (I had to do it for band class for some weird reason), that's what 69 feels like to me. Trying to do two things at once that my brain only has the power to really put 100% into one of those actions.

 

Maybe my wife and I "fit" just right but I think it's pretty damned hot and I'll have more please!

 

I have only tried this kind of activity after a shower, or during, because dingleberries aren't an aphrodisiac.

 

damn near the only way in our house........both enjoy it big time.

69.....Fuck Yeah!

 

Sexually, I can't get off if I'm focusing on going down on someone. I'm either having to concentrate on mentally forcing the orgasm, or I'm being so overwhelmed by my partner that it isn't safe to have his cock in my mouth.

Psychologically, 69... makes me feel complete. Like I've formed a conduit with my partner, which is more than standard penetration has ever been able to do for me.

Fortunately for me, I'm rarely caring if I orgasm and am more about sensation. Having a casual 69 for however long it goes with no orgasm in sight is happy-fine with me.

 

...can't sleep.

Poetry's comment made me think of that horrible Human Centipede movie.

...never sleep again.

 

I feel so accomplished. <3

 

I'm with the majority who offer that it's not ideal for an orgasm, in and of itself.

Otherwise, 69ing is one of my favorite endings for cleaning each other out/up afterwards. Everything's arranged ideally for us both, if I'm on the bottom.

 

I can't ever make myself perform cunnilingus after I've come inside her... let alone clean her out.

Whatever floats your boat, man. Just don't ever share a burger with me.